What happens in Alabama, stays in Alabama
D and I watched Sweet Home Alabama tonight. I didn't like it all that much. It was ok, but I actually liked Because I Said So better. Reese Witherspoon is just hard to like sometimes. Plus, the plot was painfully predictable. I mean, the title basically gives it away. She's not going to go for the New York guy with a title like that. And they kept playing Lynyrd Skynyrd's "Sweet Home Alabama," of course...I liked the way they used it in Forrest Gump better. Grr.
Moving on, D told me there was an article in the Times about baby gender selection and how it's easier to control what you have now. The Times has a feature where you can comment on certain articles, and that was one of them. The article has already collected over 200 comments. I don't have a strong opinion on the subject. In a way, I think you should leave it up to fate, but I understand if people want to influence the outcome. What do you think?
Moving on, D told me there was an article in the Times about baby gender selection and how it's easier to control what you have now. The Times has a feature where you can comment on certain articles, and that was one of them. The article has already collected over 200 comments. I don't have a strong opinion on the subject. In a way, I think you should leave it up to fate, but I understand if people want to influence the outcome. What do you think?
Comments
And I'm not sure how I feel about the gender selection. It could lead to the problem that China is facing---a generation of way too many men with not enough potential female mates. But I don't know that we in the U.S. have a strong enough gender preference in either direction to upset the balance that much. I worry more about the slippery-slope effect. Now it's gender. Then it's eye color or hair color. Then we have a bunch of creepy designer kids running around. Genetic variation is good for us.
As for gender selection, I am against it. It is too much like playing God. First we chose the gender, then we choose the hair colour, then height and other body characteristics...
Funny, I just read Lisa's comment, and my thoughts are exactly the same. I started to write about the Chinese gender problem too.
So basically, I'm saying I agree with Lisa.
However, I think it would be weird if my doc ever asked me, "Boy or girl?" in the same way that my grocery bagger asks me, "Paper or plastic?" What ever happened to mystery and surprise and taking what life gives you?
Regarding the gender selection, I tend to agree with Lisa - I'm not sure how I feel about gender selection. I haven't really formed a coherent opinion on it. I have read much about the problem that China is facing and the social implications of that. All these "new" issues are difficult and need a lot of debate to fully understand all the implications and consequences. I hear the argument of "It's too much like playing God" - as blackcrag states. But don't we "play God" all the time with medical advancements? We extend our lives through medicatios and surgeries (eg. heart bypasses, ventilators, etc); we change our appearances through surgeries; premature babies are now surviving because of medical technologies; invitro virtiliations, etc. We are changing the "natural" course of our lives all the time by "playing God".
Bottom line - I'm not sure. We need more thoughful and insightful public debate on the issue.
I understand that some parents really want one sex or another, especially if they already have children that are all one gender. But at the same time, it just seems to me that that's interferring a little too much with things. I can understand wanting to correct a birth defect or something, if that's possible. But choosing the gender just seems like it's going a little too far.
Reese Witherspoon? She's cute, but I don't know much about her.
I like the idea of being surprised right up until the birth, of what sex the baby is going to be. I like surprises in general, but that's like the ultimate.
I think it's already bad enough when parents try to control who and what their child is going to be from the minute they're born, but do we really have to give them the option of starting from conception?
As a society we'd have to consider the ramifications of all the 2 kid, 1 of each sex families that this would spawn though. Talk about a probable lack of variety. Bor-ing!
Here's a link to the article :)